As someone who grew up celebrating holidays to becoming someone who doesn’t, this still resonates.
So many ppl be STRESSED and it is always interesting to observe the social contracts people feel pressured to abide by in the name of tradition and making other people happy even if it’s to their detriment. Pride, ego etc all wrapped in that too 😭
someone posted, “what’s an area you lack in friendship?” and someone replied , “if you voluntarily don’t tell me your business, i won’t ask. that doesn’t mean i don’t care about you. i avoid nosiness in case you aren’t comfortable talking about it