maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you
And like Miley Cyrus said:
“I didn’t talk badly about you—I talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that’s not my problem anymore.”
There is NO WAY the person who makes your nervous system feel unsafe and constantly disregulated is the love of your life. Real love doesn’t keep you on edge. It brings alignment. It brings peace. It feels safe enough for your body to finally breathe.
Once l've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.