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🏃🏾 Athlete | Sports & Growth 📈
🎓 Human Kinetics
🧱 Building through sport, setbacks & Growth
⚡ One brick at a time
Arsenal ❤️ KWARA UTD 🟡 JASMINE 🌟

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OnGod 🤲💙

[Oluwatobiloba Amusan, OON OLY @Evaglobal01]

I don’t care if it sounds unrealistic, it’s gonna happen…
#WatchGod

[BODE @neverelent]

Now I understand "some" actions of our
parents tbh. At this stage if I pay someone's
school fees and the person comes back with
last position, one of us go run mad.

[∞ ∴ @EverBetterDaily]

shoutout to all the plants growing through concrete.

[BIG FISH @adekunleGOLD]

We are all just a victim of our environment.

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

Life is kinder to a poor woman, than it is to a poor man

Life is kinder to a rich man, than it is to a rich woman.

[Sue♡ @bookslattes]

Did anyone else try to write a book when they were younger or it’s just me?

[Hassan @oryz_ui]

This girl selling AWARA just picked with a fork from a boiling oil into her mouth 😲

Consistency 😂>>>

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Some of you young people need to be shown the other sides of relationships or marriages so that you'll understand that what you're doing is not supposed to be child's play.

Na only to fuck and cruise una sabi.

That's why many of you have several exes.

Lack of patience, greed, wokeness and cheating (especially on the side of the women) are your undoing.

You meet someone today, fuck 5 or 6 times a week and under one month...

"He's my ex"

"She's my ex"

Let me tell you this.

If your relationships have not lasted at least 6 months, take it that you have no exes.

You just had fuck mates.

When you decide to be serious with your lives, you'll put in efforts to make that relationship work and plan to settle down.

Instead of roaming the streets like headless chickens.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

From my DM:

Good afternoon Sir,

Trust you are doing well. I know you’d have a barrage of messages in your DM, but I hope you see this and find the time to respond. I will be dropping my message in one go.

I want to pick your brain on a situation.

I have a girl I have been dating for about 3 years now, and marriage is already being discussed.

I have one issue with her: when we have heated arguments, she makes rude remarks, e.g., nonsense, rubbish.

I have asked that she change, and it has been difficult for her to do so. She claims they are just side remarks, and I never take them lightly with her. This year, I have seen that she has been trying to make improvements in this area.

I have studied her parents. Her mum is someone who lets her dad speak on a matter before she talks, from what I have observed. They seem like a good family from my limited knowledge.

However, recently we had an argument and she made one of those remarks: “rubbish.” I asked her what she said, and she repeated it again.

I threatened to beat her up (I know I am wrong), I was very angry and I insulted her thoroughly. After I threatened to beat her, she requested I beat her up since that’s what I want, I then shoved her head with my hand strongly. The next thing I received were slaps.

Since then, she has been apologizing. Her dad heard and has been angry with her, as has her mum. They’ve both called me to apologize and explain that they didn’t train their daughter that way.

But Agba, I am angry and thinking of ending things with her.

Please advise me and correct me, sir.

My brief:

Relationship isn't always going to be smooth, and fights or quarrels are part of it, as long as it's nothing excessive or life threatening.

When I was still dating my lovely wife, we had quarrels and even fights, too.

One time, she was angry with me over an issue and then she took my laptop and smashed it on the bed. She also brought out our pictures and tore them. Till today, I do not have my NYSC pictures, anymore.

There had also been an incident where I received slaps or shoves and boxers or shirt being held. She had also received one or two slaps from me before. Or angry shoving as well.

But you see... Today, we are husband and wife, and even in marriage, we still quarrel as a couple.

You'll need to look at the bigger picture here. Get a pen and paper and write down 10 key points about your girlfriend based on your preferences.

If she scores 7/10, then you may wish to continue the relationship with her.

Her parents getting involved, especially her father, shows you the type of family she comes from and how they see you.

She apologizing severally, is another pointer. You also said that you have noticed improvements in her behavior.

Yes, you have every right to be angry and express your displeasure. But for a woman, it has to be a carrot and stick approach.

Imagine if it were a random woman that slapped you, you would reacted violently. But because it's your girlfriend, you held yourself from retaliation.

Use this unfortunate moment as a teaching moment for both of you, and continue with your relationship.

But let me warn you that, it may still happen again. Even in marriage.

But it will surely not be permanent.

Enjoy your make up sex.

E dey always sweet.

End.

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@oryz_ui For a while now, I'm unable login to my own

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

When your loved ones are telling you to take it easy, please listen.

[Technical Ben @TechnicalBben]

It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can’t afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.

It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.

💔💔💔

[Robert Greene @RobertGreene]

Since your success depends on the people you work with and for, make their character the primary object of your attention.

You will spare yourself the misery of discovering their character when it is too late.

[TG OMORI @boy_director]

Before you make that move remember There are consequences for every action.

[48 Laws Of Power Bot @48_quotes]

LAW 18:

DO NOT BUILD FORTRESSES TO PROTECT YOURSELF— ISOLATION IS DANGEROUS

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I enjoyed watching this 🤣

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If you're an SSCE holder and you train your wife to be a BSc holder, you're a foolish man.

It doesn't matter if you have money.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Your wife will respect you for the things she does for you and the children, not for the money she provides to do those things.

You will love your wife for the things she does with your money, not for the amount of money you provide her.

You can be providing more than enough for your wife, and still despise her.

Because you're not seeing any value for your money.

Your children are nauseating and disrespectful.

To the point that you will start to question the paternity of your own blood children.

You must provide for, & love and sacrifice for the right woman, and you must sacrifice and show respect for the right man.

Marriage is a partnership.

And every man & woman must put their best foot forward.

A man must work hard to find money and provide and lead his family right.

A wife must work hard to support and make sure that the children follow the lead of their father and respect his authority.

Anything short of these is a toxic marriage.

And a failed marriage doesn't necessarily have to be a divorced marriage.

End.

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@bayobets Wooo 😂💔
To be very honest

[Bayobets @bayobets]

“I’m so proud of your growth”

Me behind the scene:

[Nazir @MalamNazir]

I’m just smiling like a Mumu 🥹