i’m noticing that people only bring up the fact that we have bigger issues within the queer community when its lesbians talking about lesbophobia and invalidation
@laiimonlime "bc bi ppl are treated like shit" well yes but do u think lesbians aren't? the problem is misogyny and lesbiphobia and the insistence on including men in lesbianism
people love that quote of "a lesbian is not a woman" because they think its quirky slogan for nonbinary lesbians but always defang its meaning.
patriarchy defines womanhood to it's relationship to men, so lesbians lack of attraction to them makes them "not women" in their eyes>>