ima just make this a series now atp:
another random take: always remember to keep your friends accountable even if its for simple shit. staying silent means you’re complacent. if its SERIOUS shit thats even worse. world’s too evil to be letting that kind of action go unpunished
absence isnt an apology, im sorry “IF” or “BUT” isnt a good apology, and even if you do apologize good, people have a right to choose whether they should forgive you if it affected them. especially if the shit was mad serious.
Feeling uncomfortable and unsafe because of stuff you are told to be silent on as to not cause “drama” really really fucking sucks. I don’t think I’ll ever fully be okay about it. It’s always going to stay and resonate because im not “allowed” to say anything
i feel like more and more people are being excused out of being shitty because of a bad apology and then fuckin off for a bit. i see it a lot with ytbers, streamers, honestly any cc’s, and even friends.