Tems said, "your love is not my lifeline, your love is not my home. returning you, you're not mine, to me, you don't belong, i'm better on my own, you're better when you're gone..." THIS IS R&B OMG �
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
When Lauryn Hill said “it could all be so simple”she wasn't lying. Reciprocity between two people who want something to work is so simple. It's as easy as breathing.
I FINALLY REALIZED U HAVE TO FIND SOMEBODY REAL!! Find somebody who wants to FIX THINGS. You can go on a million dates. You can have good chemistry. You can fall in love. But if you want to graduate to real lasting love, you need somebody REAL. It's called RELATIONSHIP for a reason. TWO people on a SHIP navigating life together. Find a shipmate who doesn't RUN when the storms come. Find a shipmate who doesn't AVOID conflict. Find a shipmate who will sit there and FIX it. EVERYBODY can love you until their FEELINGS get hurt. EVERYBODY can love you until their PRIDE gets tested. EVERYBODY can love you until they have to FIX themselves. A lot of people have a "replace you" mindset. They’ll replace you before they resolve things. They'll replace you before they self-reflect. They'll replace you before they say "I WAS WRONG." They'll replace you before they pick up the phone and say "I need to make this right with you." BUT... if you find somebody who's quick to put their ego aside, willing to "listen" to you, willing to "adjust" for you, willing to "Grow" with you, QUICK to resolve issues with you, and has a consistent desire to REPAIR the SHIP... when the storms come... that's REAL. Find somebody real enough to TREAT you like they can't REPLACE you. If you gotta drop your pride... DO it. If you gotta go fix your past... DO it. If you gotta start over... DO it. Most people can't find what they're LOOKING for because they won't find themselves. Find somebody just as real as YOU. 🤞🏽