Dear men, One thing women cannot stand is being IGNORED. If you're busy, say so, if you're not in mood to talk, Say so. If you're done with her, say so. It's not her job to teach you how to communicate & take accountability. It's your job to Lead, she just gives off your energy!
Pernah gak sih, lo ngerasa ada di hubungan yang rasanya kayak lirik lagu Noah, “kau terangi jiwaku, redupkan lagi, kau hancurkan hatiku tuk melihatmu”?
Di satu sisi, hubungan itu bikin lo seneng banget, tapi di sisi lain, lo juga ngerasa hancur berkeping-keping.
Tapi anehnya, lo tetap jalan, lo tetap di situ, bahkan lo menikmati prosesnya.
Nah, sebenernya ini tuh bukan cuma soal “diperlakukan gak adil” atau semacamnya.
Ada penjelasan yang lebih dalam di balik kenapa kita bisa ngerasa seperti itu.
Ladies, normalize leaving a relationship when a man isn't acting like a MAN. You shouldn't have to beg someone to love you. You shouldn't have to beg someone to talk to you. You shouldn't have to beg someone to put you 1st or buy you flowers. Because if he WANTED to, he WOULD !!