you can literally wake up one day and be like “actually, fuck everything ab my past and the self-sabotaging identity i had” and decide to live an entirely new life and be someone who always fucking wins. it doesn’t take a feeling or breakthrough moment or epiphany. only a decision.
You don’t have shit to say to me, I ain’t got shit to say to you. Also you black heffa, you stand your ground. If YOU don’t like me, you don’t have to fool with me. But you don’t have to talk to me or treat me mean. I don’t have to treat you mean.
The way people respond to a bubbly personality really concerns me. Ever since I was a kid I noticed how people try to break your spirit when you’re too nice, too happy, too outgoing, too friendly. People that wanna know why you’re so gung-ho are unwell and are out to get you