You know the frustrated feeling of being slowed down by someone wanting your attention? Making the choice to briefly let go of the task & offer undivided attention is an act of love
I saw "when you initiate a date night" on my wife's agape list this morning. It prompted me to take action on something I've wanted to do. The power of a helpful reminder.
Marriage is hard for lots of reason. One biggie is feelings. We act out of our negative feelings and wait for positive ones before we express love & care. If you want to improve your relationship engage in loving action now, regardless of how you feel.