started off our 3 year anniversary pushing myself beyond my limits in a 5k run with my man. he of course left me but i’m proud 💙
happy anniversary babe!
I was a literal demon to my man 😩😩 17 months after birth we’re much better. But I think he just really loved me to stick it out. Bc when my baby was a newborn I was ready to burn all this shit down fr 😭😭
Most couples break up after having a baby because the woman changes and a lot of the time, she changes because she’s basically doing everything by herself. 😭 She has to take care of the baby, make the bottles, get up throughout the night, cook, clean, AND still take care of her man. Now she’s exhausted, overwhelmed, and touched out, so sex isn’t really on her mind. Then instead of the man stepping up and helping her, y’all start arguing, he feels neglected, she feels unsupported, and sometimes he ends up cheating. 💀
A baby doesn’t necessarily ruin a relationship. The lack of support after the baby comes can.
still with the father of my child but it took me having a child to see how easy it is to give up after the child.
we worked through it. but it wasn’t easy.
@aviibabyy23 it is not easy to forgive! i still struggle with it. but girl.. if we desire grace when we mess up (bc we do) then we gotta be able to give it.
@aviibabyy23 no, never cheated that i know of & tbh bc we all need grace, people have too many expectations.. we’re all living this life for the first time & mistakes & misunderstandings happen. a bad day doesn’t mean a bad life.