you have to file the man as an experience cause that’s exactly what you are to him — you have to forget wanting to ‘belong’ to him. your tolerating is bargaining for his attention, for more. Enjoy your time, fuck him and go home.
I am grateful for the women who will never turn their backs on males. Thank you for your sacrifice. Thank you for keeping them occupied so women like me can continue to fly under the radar. Thank you for believing in them. Thanks for being the buffer btw us. Better y’all than me.
Chat, there's no way. 😭
I had a date scheduled for 8:30 p.m. tonight. By the time he finally got ready and texted that he was on his way, his ETA was 8:47 p.m. I was about to let it slide... then I saw this:
Totally relate with this, my level of interest mirrors how much effort and intention has been put forward and I do not initiate but absolutely reciprocate.
My thoughts
If you are always available to your partner, they will take you for granted. I’m not saying deliberately ignore them so they don’t see you finish, but have other things that take your time apart from the relationship
Have things that are also important to you. The moment you make that relationship the centre of your world, you’ve already lost it