@decodelily@laticuada and because you don’t have a strong sense of self you become very much infatuated with someone else latching onto their identity instead of standing strong in your own.
this is just imo as sm1 diagnosed w bpd n have had so many fps
i think this applies to bpd in some cases too
@decodelily@laticuada (dont take offence to this i don’t mean it in a mean way just to maybe educate/help/answer ur q) personally i think if it’s not bpd this comes from a lack of self love/respect. the less you love yourself the more you have to “love” someone else and because P1 i ran out of space
and in my opinion are horrible people if all you’re doing is just commenting on someone’s body. i’m sure she knows how skinny she is u don’t gotta tell her
idc what any of yall say ar1ana grenade needs to be left alone! being concerned is fair but speaking on it won’t do anything but make it worse we just need to acknowledge once, shut our mouths n hope she has a strong support system. ppl speaking abt it r making the problem worse
in 2022 i lost 15kg
in 2023 i gained 4kg
in 2024 i gained 6kg
in 2025 i lost 5kg and gained 6kg
in 2026 i’ve gained 5kg lost 3kg and gained another 5kg
genuinely someone lock me in a room without food why is food so good #edtwt