The pain of "my favorite bottom is only interpreted as a top" is genuinely not even 0.001% as horrible as the pain of "my favorite top is only interpreted as a bottom"
shouto getting called out to an emergency and he doesnโt have time to get to his phone to send katsuki a message that heโll miss dinner tonight, so he just looks at a news camera and shouts, โsorry, katsuki, iโll be late coming home today!โ before zooming off on his ice