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I saw a video on TikTok where they asked some group of Nigerian men at the gym what they would do if they wake up the opposite gender, majority of them talked about having sex, getting babygirl treatment from men,clubbing, traveling and living their lives etc, surprisingly none of this men talked about being a submissive housewife,having children, cooking & clean.
My aunt managed my grandma’s pills. I told her: “Do not change her doses. Do not give her extra.”
Grandma was on blood thinners. One wrong pill could kill her.
Aunt said: “I’m a nurse, I know better than the doctor.”
Then I noticed Grandma getting dizzy, bruising easily.
I didn’t argue.
Because everyone said: “She’s family. She’s trying to help.”
So I bought a pill bottle with a tiny camera in the cap.
Set it up next to her real meds. Left the room “to run errands.”
Checked the SD card that night.
At 11:47 a.m., aunt came in, dumped 2 extra pills into Grandma’s cup, and crushed them.
Said out loud: “She’ll sleep better if I give her more.”
I made 4 copies of that video before calling Adult Protective Services.
Police + APS came with me to her house. She still had the pill crusher out.
Turns out she’d been doing it for months to other patients she “babysat” for cash.
Mine was just the first one with proof.
She lost her nursing license.
And somehow…
I’m the one family calls “ruthless.”
Apparently, in my family, endangering Grandma is “helping.”
But documenting it to save her life?
That makes me the villain.
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Lots of new followers here, so I thought I would share what I have been working on for a decade+ and what I have learned about female health and longevity from publicly sharing the most data as a woman in the world.. (a Thread)
Teach your boy child “ Men are not Polygamous in Nature
Teach your boy child that “a Man not cheating isn’t Simp but rare gem
Teach him not to seek Validation from DAMAGED Men on social media
Teach Your boy child how to handle Rejections
Teach your Boy child Consents & No means No
Teach your Boy the beauty of staying faithful with one woman
Teach your boy child respect towards women
Teach Your boy child the gravity of their actions
Lastly :Be a Good examples to your boy child because you can tell them all this things but if you’re not leading by examples then you’re a joker.
Happy INTERNATIONAL BOY CHILD DAY 🩷.
Live your life on your own terms.
Move within your means
The uprising of arrests by the FBI is telling that alot of people want to get rich quickly.
Living a flashy life isnt the ultimate.
If your means can afford a picanto go for it and work steadily , you will be able to afford a benz one day.
Times and seasons ❤️💯.!
The abuse of women’s rights in this country is absolutely absurd .
Yesterday a guy posted a young girls naked videos on social media because he allegedly caught her having consensual sexual with a guy.
Today we are hearing of an alleged telegram platform by a Ghanaian businessman who drugs and sleeps with women , recording them and selling online.
This really breaks my heart 💔.
Proper Christian dilemma.
Kelvin: Pastor, according to the Bible, people are saved by accepting Jesus into their hearts, right?
David Oyedepo: Yes. Salvation comes through Christ alone.
Kelvin: Then I have a question. What happened to all the indigenous peoples of the Americas and Africa before European colonization? Entire civilizations existed for centuries without ever hearing about Jesus.
Oyedepo: God is merciful, kelvin.
Kelvin: But were they saved or not?
Oyedepo: The Bible says Christ is the only way to the Father.
Kelvin: Exactly. So were the Aztecs, Maya, Inca, and countless native tribes in Africa condemned simply because nobody reached them with the gospel of Jesus?
Oyedepo: We cannot fully understand the mysteries of God’s judgment.
Kelvin: But surely there are only two possibilities.
Oyedepo: Go on.
Kelvin: Either people who never heard of Jesus can still be saved…
Oyedepo: God may judge people according to how well they lived their lives, their works … or light available to them
Kelvin: Okay, but if that’s true, then Christianity becomes unnecessary for salvation.
Oyedepo: How do you mean?
Kelvin: Because if isolated people can be saved without hearing about Jesus, then humanity doesn’t actually need Christianity. We could simply live our lives and be judged by our actions and conscience…just like those indigenous people supposedly would be.
Oyedepo: Evangelism is still important.
Kelvin: But not necessary for salvation in that case. If people can reach heaven without Christianity, then Christianity is irrelevant as a requirement for salvation.
Oyedepo: Hmm.
Kelvin: But the other option is worse.
Oyedepo: Which is?
Kelvin: That people who never heard the gospel are automatically condemned.
Oyedepo: but The wages of sin is death.
Kelvin: But they never rejected Jesus. They were simply born in the wrong place and time. They were ignorant through no fault of their own.
Oyedepo: God’s ways are higher than ours.
Kelvin: Then that would mean Christianity describes a being willing to punish billions of people eternally for circumstances completely outside their control. It could even be argued that evangelizing to people is more likely to take them to hell than heaven since if they could live their lives without learning about Christianity and still make heaven , learning about the gospel but rejecting it because they were not convinced would take them to hell regardless of how they lived their life. Which makes evangelism a net negative for salvation.
Oyedepo: …
Kelvin: So either people can be saved without Christianity…. making Christianity irrelevant for salvation…or they cannot, which makes the Christian system evil because innocent ignorance becomes grounds for eternal punishment.
Oyedepo: Kelvin…
Kelvin: Either Christianity is unnecessary, or it is morally monstrous.
Oyedepo: We will be praying for you.
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Endometriosis, a condition affecting 190 million women and girls worldwide and causes internal bleeding, was given funding for a study in 2013. Instead of studying the causes what could help cure or ease it and what may make one more susceptible to it... They studied the "Attractiveness " of women who had it. Yes, this is a real study.
I was 21. NYSC posting: a village clinic in Osun. No light. No water. Just me, a matron in her 60s, and women who walked 3 hours for antenatal.
Day 1, a 16 year old girl came in bleeding and pregnant. Her 40-year old husband said, “It���s normal. First baby always hard.”
Matron took one look at me and said, “Corper, you go learn today.”
We had no ultrasound or blood bank. Just gloves, faith, and a torchlight I held with my mouth while Matron’s hands disappeared inside that child.
For 6 hours we fought. The girl was slipping. Matron prayed in Igala and English. I cried, thinking, “This is why I wanted to japa.” 😂
Then the baby’s cry came; a small, angry boy, alive. The 14-year-old whispered, “Aunty, thank you for not running.” 😭
Covered in blood and sweat, Matron said: “You think this work na for money? This work na for the girls who don’t know their own worth yet. You stay. You fight. You stubborn. Because if we no stubborn, who go be stubborn for them?”
That was 5 years ago.
Today I’m a doctor in Lagos with a clinic in Abule Egba. Every girl who comes in with “normal period pain” that’s been killing her for years reminds me of that torchlight and Matron’s hands. I get stubborn.
I’ve diagnosed 47 cases of advanced PID this year, done 12 fibroid surgeries, and caught 3 girls early before their wombs got damaged.
Ladies, my message is simple:
1. “Normal” pain that stops your school, work, or life? It’s NOT normal.
2. Your body is not “village people.” It’s biology. Test it. Scan it. Know it.
3. Be stubborn about your health. The world will call you dramatic. Be dramatic and alive.
That matron died 2 years ago, but her stubbornness lives in every girl I refuse to let die quietly.
Because they’d much rather you have a child you can’t take care of, just to prove a point.
They don’t really care about the child, how they’re raised, or the responsibility that comes with it.
The idea of children isn’t about bringing life into the world. It’s about meeting expectations.
Women are shamed for not having children, even in a lot of cases when they literally just CAN’T; meanwhile there are many do and can’t/ don’t care for them. Smh
We need to stop romanticizing the bare minimum as “self care” in motherhood.
-Eating a hot meal uninterrupted? Basic human need.
-Going to the bathroom alone? Not a luxury.
-A dentist appointment? Not a spa day.
-Grocery shopping? Definitely not “me time.”
And if you have to be sick, injured, or completely depleted just to rest,
that’s not normal. That’s a problem.
Dear men, I just wanted to share this before I fully move on from this topic because I want posterity to see that I made an effort. It’s Saturday, and today is a good day to take that first step toward bonding with your kids.
We know it has been a very busy week, and you are tired. If you’re home, please try not to sleep all day. Get some rest, then ask your kids to find a book and read to you. If they fear you, calmly reassure them that they are not in trouble and that reading to you will make you feel better. Seeing that they can help you in a vulnerable moment will make them happy. Ask them to tell you their favorite stories. Do they like to play football? Watch them play and cheer them on. Do they enjoy playing “suwe”? Cheer them on while they play. Do you have any games at home? Play with them. Do they have a favorite movie? Watch it with them. Ask about their week. Find out what they like and don’t like about school. Talk to them about your work. Share what you do for a living and explain it in a way they can understand. Let them be close to you. Use a calm voice with them. Don’t let it be that the only time they hear your voice is when they do something wrong. As their father, be their confidant and comforter, not just their punisher. When their mother reports them to you, tell her to handle the situation. Don’t discipline them over everything. Sometimes, you just need to talk to them. Praise and boost their confidence when they do something right. When they make mistakes, encourage them to learn from them. Children will always be children; they will make mistakes. It is our responsibility to guide them. Make them comfortable in the house you built for them. Don’t let them walk on eggshells around you. Eat with them. Relax with them.
If you are not home with them, today is a good day to call and check on them. Don’t tell their mom to say hi to them, ask her to give them the phone so you can speak to them directly. If they fear you enough not to want to talk, ask their mom to put the phone on speaker. Don’t you think they would love to hear your voice? Don’t you think it’s important for them to know that you are okay? Don’t you think they miss their dad? Hearing your voice could make their day. Call them and ask what they ate. If their mom calls you to report them, tell her you trust her to handle it. She can discipline them too. When you get home, talk to them about it and give them tips on how to avoid making the same mistakes. You can speak to them for just a minute, and it will always be worth it. Tell them you miss them and that you can’t wait to see them. Showing that you care will give them comfort.
You see that tweet I twoted yesterday? You people are right. Please don't mind me. Don't build any relationship with your kids. Don't communicate with them. Don't show up for them. Don't hang out with them. Let their mother do everything. Let their mother be the one doing the explanation to them. Let their mother be one explaining you are out there hustling for them. Let their mother be the one enduring their tantrums. You just keep working. You cannot Kuku do everything. Keep working. Don't spend time with your kids. You are right. When your kids grow up, they will understand your absence.
But, in the future when they post their mom and don't post you, please don’t vex o. When they call their mom on the phone and converse for like an hour, and they call you for 20 seconds to check up on you. Don't vex o. When all you see is credit alert and gifts and you don't see them. Don't vex o. I hope you will understand their absence too. When the time comes and they hardly visit you. Don't vex o. Don't go on internet and explain how you have suffered for them o ❤️
A 12-year-old can't sign a lease, buy a phone, or get a tattoo.
But she can be forced to give birth?
Meanwhile, the 30-year-old who got her pregnant walks free.
This isn't pro-life. It's pro-predator.
Husband reportedly refuses to sign the consent form for his wife to give birth through CS, insisting that the doctors & nurses should allow her deliver naturally. He threatens to divorce her if the hospital pushes through with the CS delivery.
This is exactly what happens when you marry an ignorant, backwards, overly traditional man. Because how do you look at your wife. Your own wife!! Clearly in serious pain, fighting for her life, and instead of supporting her or listening to doctors, you’re there threatening her with divorce over a C-section??
Like, are you actually okay?? This isn’t about your pride or whatever nonsense belief you’re holding on to. This is someone’s life. The woman you’re supposed to love and protect. And all you can think about is control and ego?
Omooo una dey marry oo