Talida Adela

Femininity is my strength.
A place where feminine words come to life. ✨

My husband is the best man for me. ♥️
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[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

Most people long for a place where they can lay down their armor. Many men spend much of their lives performing, solving problems, and carrying the weight of responsibility. When they come home, they also need a space where they feel seen, appreciated, and accepted.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

One of the greatest contributions of femininity is this: ✨to humanize✨. To bring warmth where everything risks becoming merely functional.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

I love the idea of seeing people through the lens of their spiritual age rather than their physical age. It brings so much more compassion and understanding into the way we relate to one another.

And no, I haven’t seen Astral City: A Spiritual Journey yet, but now you’ve made me curious. :) I’ll definitely look it up. Thank you. 🙏

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

@kat_healing Katie, I so enjoy being in sync with you. 💗 Your flowers are beautiful, and that soft pastel pink delights my eyes. 🫶

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The heart is the gateway through which femininity expresses itself most naturally. When we close it to avoid suffering, we end up avoiding love, intuition, connection, and joy as well. When we open it, life begins to flow through us again.

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@christinaraciti Lovely 💓

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@shesabadass_com I think many mothers need to hear this. 🫶 Sometimes we forget to ask whether the standards we hold ourselves to are actually realistic or even humanly possible. 🌻

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@shesabadass_com Thank you for your kind words. ❤️ Yes, I believe so too. I have a feeling that both children and adults flourish in environments where there is more respect and less intrusion.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

I would like people to treat babies with more empathy and respect.

Many people approach babies without realizing how sensitive they are. Out of enthusiasm or affection, they touch them, invade their personal space, or overwhelm them with excessive attention and overstimulation, without noticing the subtle signals babies are communicating.

I feel that babies are still very close to the Divine✨. They are extremely receptive to the energy and emotional states of those around them. While we adults are so earthly, they come from a place of purity.

When I meet a baby, I never approach too closely. I allow them to observe me, to “read” my energy. I smile at them and speak softly. I touch them ONLY when I feel that I am welcome: when they respond with a smile, when they stretch their little hands toward me, or when my presence seems to inspire trust.

I believe that the most beautiful form of closeness is not to immediately enter their space, but to wait until you are invited.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

@ChantalElisa Indeed. ❤️❤️❤️

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

If parents were aware that more than 80% of their child’s brain development takes place during the first 3 years of life, they would view the time spent together not as a routine, but as one of the most important investments in their child’s future.

During this period, the brain forms more than 1 million neural connections per second, laying the foundation for language, learning, emotional regulation, self-confidence, and the ability to build healthy relationships later in life.

Every conversation, every hug, every moment of play and connection contributes to the architecture of the brain that will support them throughout their lives.

Children will not remember most of the moments from their early years. But their brains will carry the imprint of those moments forever.

In many ways, the first 3 years shape the framework for an entire lifetime, during one of the most important developmental windows a human being will ever have.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

@Sherard_Bowser Thank you, Sherard. ❤️ I appreciate the meaning behind your words. It's incredible to see how beautifully a child develops when they feel respected, loved, and safe. Children who grow up this way challenge many of our assumptions about childhood.

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@williameijer Thank you, William. ❤️ I'm glad you find value in what I write. I truly appreciate your support, and I'm honored by your words. Your message means a lot to me and warms my heart. 🙏

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

@Impactingright ❤️

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Sometimes women feel pressured to fit into a very rigid image of how a feminine woman “should” be: always calm, delicate, maternal, beautiful, mysterious…

But true femininity does not mean losing your individuality.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

Every person contains both masculine and feminine traits. Maturity does not mean rigidity in roles, but harmony between the mind and the heart.

When strength and sensitivity are no longer in conflict, a person begins to become whole.

[Talida Adela @adela_writes]

A woman who criticizes another woman is, in fact, judging an aspect of her own femininity that has yet to be explored.