One idea that has revolutionized my thinking is this: you are allowed to not want things.
You can look at everything society tells you that you need to have and just be like, “Nope. I will not be participating.”
2026:
- Upload resume
- AI rejects it in 3 seconds
- Fill same information again manually
- Record one-way video interview talking to yourself
- Complete unpaid assignment
- 7 interview rounds
- Personality test
- IQ test
- Culture fit round
- Wait 3 months
- We chose another candidate
Job reposted next week.
I met a lady in her mid 50s and I can’t shake off the conversation we had. She subtly reminded me that there’s a timeframe to run and work as hard as you can and you shouldn’t miss that window. Take your highest earning and natural strength timeline seriously.
We have spent years being told it is “just a period problem” while our skin, our weight, our mood, and our energy were all falling apart. Today, the medical world finally admitted you were right.
PCOS is now PMOS.
There’s a phase you get to in life life,
all those hymns you sang in your childhood as mere songs , starts making total sense
Because what a friend we really have in Jesus ?
My son died. I know he didn't contribute anything to mankind — he was only two months old — but I like to believe he was destined to do something good for humanity. It's been a while since his death, and I hate to dwell on it so publicly, but I wanted you to know him.
I got married really early !
- This allowed me to be focused on what was important
- Always had the brainpower of 2 (we are both professionals)
- helped her X her income
It’s been 10+ years and my income has 125x in that time
Dear young Nigerian,
Be intentional about what you desire and where you are going in life.
Be willing to put in the required effort to secure the future you desire.
Stop putting away those dreams, and ambitions. Commit to bringing them to pass this new week. Best wishes!
8 years ago, in the presence of 4 friends in Denmark, I married the love of my life. It's been a wonderful journey visiting several countries together and building a life filled with laughter, love, and memories I will forever treasure.
Happy Anniversary, Darling!
2026 owes me my big girl career. One that comes with financial stability, career progression, occasional travel, a good work environment and great colleagues