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[23 @sinatraxxiii]

I have been reluctant to speak publicly about a private matter, but what has happened over the past few weeks has gone beyond a personal disagreement. It is now affecting my reputation, my home, my wife and my family, and I believe I need to put my side of the story on record.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

As a man,

If you're married to a first daughter child from a struggling family, & you're also from a shrugging family.

Please take care of your immediate family first.

But when you want to extend kindness to your extended family, please do it to your own siblings first.

Your wife's family will be highly dependent on your income, and your own family will be looking to you for help too.

Please uplift your own family out of poverty first, before thinking of your wife's.

Otherwise, your wife will use your money to upgrade her family and later shame your own family for being poor & even try to block you from helping them.

Forget that she's your wife and mother of your children.

She also has brothers, and her brothers will do the same if they were in your shoes.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

And you know the funniest part?

It's women that mostly threaten to divorce their husbands.

Only weak men beg their wives to stay.

If she threatens you with divorce, tell her to do it fast.

Don't ever beg her.

Unless she's the one feeding, housing & clothing you.

End.

[@mrajiabdulwasiu @mrajiabdulwasiu]

Spot-on.

Two life story come to my mind.

1. A former boss. His wife moved out of their home. They were married for 12 years. Foolishly, she moved into an apartment rented by her sideman. A married man with two kids.
My boss never looked back. He moved on. He remarried a year later, today, he is a confirmed father of a beautiful girl. There was no child between him and his first wife. As per his ex-wife, at 37 years, she is TikTok sensation now. God knows what she is feeding her followers.

2. One of my uncle wife. She abandoned him when he had financial challenges. About 10 years into their marriage. They had 2 children. My parents even took the responsibility of training one of their children. Still she did not stay. Till today, she is unmarried. As per my uncle, he remarried and had three more children.

Anywhere in this world, the reality for a divorced man and woman is totally different.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I was just chatting with a divorced woman that I thought all along was married.

Today is the first time that I am chatting with her since she started following me in 2020.

Her ex-husband met her in 2014 and told her, "God said that you were his wife." They did not court and were under strict religious doctrines before their wedding.

They were married for 6 years, no kids.

The man suddenly started accusing her of cheating without any evidence and stopped providing for her.

She walked out of the marriage in 2020, and the family returned the bride price. The man remarried and now has two children.

She is still unmarried till date with no child and she's 36.

In 2024, she met a man that she dated for 9 months until June 2025.

It was her first time sleeping with another man since her divorce in 2020.

Unfortunately, the man turned out not to be someone serious with his life, so she broke up with him.

Recall that yesterday, I said women do not have scarcity of men, but they have scarcity of husbands?

That's exactly what she's experiencing now and still, no man in sight as we speak.

Her ex husband is remarried and now has children with another woman.

Infact, he remarried a year after their divorce.

I simply told her that religion ruined her and she agreed with me.

For you young women, I have told to stop advising you, but I haven't stopped.

And I am still doing so because I believe some of you may be able to listen to wise counsel.

Open your eyes very well before you say "I do". Because once you get married, your market value automatically is tied to that man and not to other men outside.

If you go and get married to an oloriburuku, an oloriburuku will be your husband.

And you must stay with that oloriburuku as long as he's not a threat to your life.

And even if he becomes a threat to your life and you decide to leave the marriage, it still will not make you immune from being tagged a divorcee.

And most men will prefer to marry a never married woman over you.

End.

[KHAN'✨ @khanofkhans11_]

“Giving men your phone number as a married woman means you’re available”

[Your Herbal Stroke Specialist @NY_amankwaa]

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[Enugu Ezechiteoke @Onyekaa_Ezugwu]

Cancer is not a dangerous disease!

Dr Gupta says, No one should die of cancer except due to carelessness.

The first step is to stop all sugar intake. Without sugar in your body, cancer cells die a natural death.

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

I was in court once.
A wife sued her husband for divorce
The judge read the case file and said, "There are no grounds for divorce here unless this woman is just saying she is no longer interested because of her own reasons. Irreconciliable differences, and the man is still paying you all these allowances and taking care of your mother, sending your younger brother to the University, and having sex with you?
Unless there is something you that is not written here, i cannot in good faith say this case is worthy of consideration."

The court was silent

The judge then turned to the woman and said "Is there financial abuse?"

Woman: No

Judge: Is there emotional abuse?

Woman: No

Judge: Is there infidelity?

Woman: eemmmm.... Yes

Judge: You are a liar. If he cheated on you, that would be the first thing you would list here as your reason for seeking a divorce.
I can see you are desperate to leave the marriage to pursue your own agenda, and for that reason, I will grant you this divorce so that you don't kill this man."

Woman: Thank you your honour

Husband: I take exception to being accused of infidelity in court, ma. My children may read the transcript one day, and I will not have them believe that.

Judge: Woman, what do we do now?

Woman: I am sorry for saying that, your honour. I also apologise to him. It was a slip of the tongue. I now state categorically that Mr. so and so did not cheat on me throughout our fourteen years of marriage. I am seeking a divorce based on irreconcilable differences.

A cheating wife will accuse her husband of cheating without blinking.

To the cheat, every other person is a cheat

[𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 @AsakyGRN]

Here’s the call recording between Frank Edoho and Titi.

[𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 @AsakyGRN]

Part two.

[UGO @icparklins]

Been working on a way-finding system app for the British Museum’s visitors experience.

[UGO @icparklins]

We have successfully issued SEIS Investor certificates and claim forms from HMRC to our early stage investors who can now claim 50% tax relief of their investment in MOmsi, from HMRC.

If you’re based in the UK and would love to join the limited investment round, let’s talk.

[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

Ugo’s cheating wife wanted to get him deported with lies, but unfortunately for her, it backfired and she’s back to Lagos. After all the investments he made? That’s to show you that a cheating woman is dangerous. She will go any length to have you d£ad so she can continue life with who she is cheating with.

She will ruin everything you have built just to break you, especially when caught.

Never forgive a cheating woman, you’ll regret it.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Yesterday, I told us about a 40 year old man that was rejected by a 30 year old lady.

Please read from him 👇.

[Dr. Emma Okore @EmmaOkoreMD]

A very close friend came to visit me yesterday. He's been dating this beautiful lady for 9 months and has finally decided to propose this weekend. He wanted me there as his morale booster.

When he showed me her picture.

I froze.

I operated on this lady a year ago for ectopic pregnancy. She lost one fallopian tube during surgery. The other tube was completely blocked from chronic pelvic infection.

This means she cannot conceive naturally. Ever.

And my guy is not financially ready for IVF wahala. Not even close.

My face changed instantly. He noticed, but I played it off. I've been restless ever since he left.

Now I'm stuck between two unfavourable options

Should I breach patient's confidentiality and tell my friend the truth? This would save him from a marriage that could crash on the rocks of infertility and financial strain. But at the risk of my career, my license, and the lady's right to privacy.

Or should I keep quiet and let him marry her. But it would break my heart to watch him discover the truth months or years later, after heartbreak, blame, and possibly divorce. Knowing I could have stopped it.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

I need answers fast. Weekend is just 2 days away.

[The Alpha Path @TheAlphaPathh]

Good idea to know basic ranges but some numbers vary by lab and person.

Common reference ranges (approx.):
• Blood pressure: ~120/80 mmHg
• Pulse: 60–100 bpm
• Temperature: ~36.5–37.5°C
• Breathing: 12–20 / min
• Hemoglobin: M ~13–17 g/dL, F ~12–15 g/dL
• Cholesterol (total): <200 mg/dL
• Sodium: 135–145 mmol/L
• Potassium: 3.5–5.0 mmol/L
• WBC: ~4,000–11,000 /µL
• Platelets: ~150,000–450,000 /µL
• Vitamin D: ~20–50 ng/mL
• Vitamin B12: ~200–900 pg/mL

Numbers are guides your doctor interprets them with context (age, symptoms, medications). Regular checkups matter more than memorizing values.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Any single woman in today's Nigeria who earns above N1.5m per month is likely to be over 30 years old.

And unfortunately, she may stay single for a much longer time, until she decides to reduce her expectations &amp; get married to a gold digger or a 50/50 man.

End.

[Kenzman Kenzee @Kenzman]

There’s a lady I know who was doing very well financially, she even had her own car, and back then she was constantly pressuring me about marriage, crying over the phone, all emotional. She had been grinding so hard, chasing her career, hopping from meeting to meeting, barely any time even for weekends. She was ready to finance everything herself because she earned more than I did at the time. Fast forward, and now she’s struggling to find a suitor who can match her independence and success.

This just proves the point, building a career and financial independence is amazing, but if you completely sideline relationships, society will still judge you for being too independent or hard to marry. The harsh reality is, success can make it harder to find a partner who respects you and isn’t intimidated, or just wants to ride your success.

[Better Men @Better_men]

I think all men should see this video and allow it simmer