If Iโm having a tough conversation with you, itโs because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. Iโm not attacking you
learning that real love means iโm willing to let u go if i see that u need space to evolve and learn ur lessons uninterrupted. in the past iโve held onto people even tighter at that point but iโm realizing thatโs something else. not love.
i donโt care what happens you will never catch me saying โgrapedโ or โunalivedโ i have read 1984 lol language has power. replace a letter with a number/symbol if you need, but creating new words like that waters down their meaning and makes these issues seem lighter than they are
omg guys ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ did u know that when u push everyone away they actually ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ stay ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ away ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
start checking yourself. start correcting yourself when youโre being unnecessarily negative. start minding your business when you realize youโre policing someoneโs choices that donโt have anything to do with you. hold yourself accountable for goals you keep procrastinating on
Ur soulmate is someone whoโs committed to working things out with you & doesnโt see breaking up as an option. theyโre willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in ur relationship