Kenapa demam selalu datang waktu malam dan perlu ke makan ubat?
Pernah tak siang rasa sihat saja, tapi bila malam tiba badan tiba-tiba panas, kepala berat, menggigil sampai susah nak tidur?
Kenapa ya, demam ni macam “tunggu malam”?
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Marriage isn’t about 50:50. It’s not about 100:0 either.
Yesterday I wasn’t feeling well. Husb bought us dinner from pasar malam and fed me medicine while I was in bed. He ironed the clothes for us and the kids, did the laundry and washed the dishes.
Today, he went to bed early. Just after Isyak, he dozed off. I could see how exhausted he was. So I took care of the rest of the house chores, ironing the clothes, doing the laundry and washing the dishes.
You see, yesterday, it was 30:70. And today, it’s 70:30. The ratio is never fixed. Sometimes it’s 55:45. Sometimes it’s 60:40. Depends on day. Sometimes it even got to 43.8:56.2
Marriage is about partnership. It’s about complementing and backing each other up. You can’t define it by an exact ratio. As long as both respect each other, understand partnership and responsibility, they’ll make it, insyaAllah.
The Best Wife
Ibn Rajab رحمه الله said:
The best wife is the gentle, tender, clean, pious one who helps her husband in difficult times and does not do anything against her husband in difficult times.
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