Bundan 5 yıl sonra evlisin. İstediğin eve sahipsin. İyi bir işin var. Çocukların uyuyor. Sen ve eşin koltukta oturmuş sohbet ediyorsunuz. Dışarıda yağmur yağıyor ve yarın cumartesi.
Jika ditanya, apa hadits yang paling berbekas di hati, selalu ku jawab; sabda Nabi pada Ibnu Abbas yang masih kecil.
Pesannya pada anak kecil, tapi dalam, "Sesungguhnya kemenangan itu bersama kesabaran, kelapangan itu bersama kesusahan, dan bersama kesulitan itu ada kemudahan."
Kalau tidurmu dibawah jam 12 malam, kemungkinan kamu BUKAN orang PINTAR
Aku gak ngasal guys, ada risetnya.
Menurut jurnal ini:
> Orang dengan IQ rendah (dibawah 75) rata-rata tidur jam 23:41
> IQ normal (90-110) tidur jam 00:10
> IQ jenius (diatas 125) tidur jam 00:29
Bedanya emang cuma sekitar 48 menit, tapi polanya konsisten di berbagai kelompok, mulai dari etnis, pendidikan, sampe agama.
gatau yaa tapi gw punya feeling kalo sifat lo kaya gini dan ga berubah, suatu saat itu akan menghancurkan diri lo.
belajar lebih lagi untuk menghargai orang lain dan melihat sudut pandang orang lain, maka lo akan disenangi.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, "Never play fair in a game where others cheat." It doesn't mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they'll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
Your lack of personal purpose is causing your romantic obsession. When your life is full, you're building something, you're learning something, you're creating something, you're serving someone, you don't have time to spend 4 hours analyzing why they used a period instead of an exclamation point. You read the text, you reply, you move on with your day. But when someone becomes the most exciting part of your life, every notification feels life changing, every delayed response feels personal, every conversation gets replayed in your head like it's game film. Suddenly you're looking for a hidden meanings in messages that were probably sent while they were waiting in line at target. You know, it's it's not that you're deeply in love. It's that your brain has nothing more compelling to latch on to. A relationship was never meant to become your identity. It should add to your life, not replace it. The healthiest people I've met don't love less. They they just have more to love. They have goals, they get them out of bed friends, they invest in hobbies. They're excited about purpose. So, you know ironically, that's usually what makes them more attractive too,because they want a relationship, they don't need one to to feel complete .So before you convince yourself that one person is the answer to everything, ask yourself a harder question if they disappear tomorrow what would still make me excited to wake up? Your answer to that question matters a whole lot more than whether they text it back.
Selesai sholat, jangan buru-buru berdiri.
Justru saat itulah pintu langit terbuka luas. 🌿
Luangkan beberapa menit untuk dzikir dan doa.
Amalan ringan… tapi dampaknya luar biasa.
Hati lebih tenang, rezeki dilapangkan, dan hidup jadi lebih terarah.🤲🤲