dissociatedsurvivor

I am a survivor of childhood sexual, physical and emotional abuse. As well as RA and MK, I developed Dissociative Identity Disorder

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@OnyiWrites

and put together. It has helped me prep for Nov so much and saved me a lot of time and heartache
I hope yu have a wonderful day!

LisaBri from Vancouver Island

Part 4 and final

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@OnyiWrites

Do yu agree that these 2 plots the people pleasing aspect of MC and all that she goes through is character driven while the blackmailing is plot driven?
I want to thank yu if yu answer this and a big thanks for the workshop yu took the time to organize

Part 3 LisaB

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@OnyiWrites

So the plot is around the blackmailing that involves all-of the characters while the MC dealing with her trauma based submissiveness leads her into 2 relationships where they are both using her to get info on the other thru her with blackmail being key.

Part 2 LBr

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@OnyiWrites

Hi Onyi

I just watched the workshop of Doing it for The Plot at Prowritingaid for NovNov
My story is about A woman who has spent her lifetime people pleasing and arrives at her best friend’s house to find him attacked.

[Cory Morgan @CoryBMorgan]

@JustinTrudeau Yeah that will work great.

Except, those who miss or are late with rental payments will get a mark against their credit.

We don't need better credit scores.

We need more supply.

Cut the mass immigration!

[one guy. maybe more @documense]

feeling particularly lonely recently re: losing consciousness and having certain trauma feelings and stressors coming up so i appreciate any kind words/advice. especially the feeling of "if i tell the therapist this thing someone (inside/outside) will kill me" type feelings

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@Milkyywaysystem Great she’s not alone. I was always devastated finding child alters alone and hurting. But elated when they were paired up and then playing like coloring. Be patient it takes time but reward is great.

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@Milkyywaysystem Ok is there anyone in your system who can just be with her on the inside world regardless of what she believes so eventually realizes she is not alone? I’m just trying to think of things that helped us.

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@Milkyywaysystem Can yu show her a calendar telling her its 2022 and abuse is not happening now?

[Schrodinger's Alter @HollowPuff]

@adissociated You could write down all the things you would say to another alter in your system when they're experiencing the things you are. Than you could read those messages directed toward yourself. It'll probably feel a little silly but it might slowly internalize 💜💜💜

[Schrodinger's Alter @HollowPuff]

@adissociated 💜💜💜 try to take it one moment at a time. Depression is a really hard thing to push through. Remember to have compassion for yourself 💜

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@HollowPuff Ok thanks l will give that a try. It’s a good idea. I really appreciate yu writing me.

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

#did #dissociativeidentitydisorder #childhoodabuse #diddepression #dissociatwt l am suffering from a major depression since Jan but since July it’s been getting worse. I have to wait 4-6 months to see a psychiatrist to have med review. Any words will help

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@HollowPuff Yes absolutely thanks

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@HollowPuff Thanks for this. Compassion is so hard. It’s usually someone inside that has issues and l can have some compassion for them and work to get the system feeling better. But for me lm struggling so much and having trouble hearing their words. Thanks again!

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@R3DR4G3dotEXE Yes l always said it was like putting a puzzle together without knowing what the picture on the box was

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

@chameleon_teamm Yes denial was huge for me. My therapist always told me to hold onto my denial between sessions-it kept me safe. But in therapy to let it go

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

#did #dissociativeidentitydisorder #childhoodabuse #dissociation #mindcontrol What was your first thought/reaction to knowing your were DID? Mine was “OMG l have been caught! yet l had no idea what that meant”

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

#did #dissociativeidentitydisorder #dissociatwt #childhoodabuse #dissociation My living situation is up in the air causing our stress levels to rise bringing about turmoil inside esp with kids. Rereading Allison Miller’s book for survivors which we are a contributor to helps.

[dissociatedsurvivor @adissociated]

#did #dissociatwt #dissociativeidentitydisorder #dissociation #childhoodabuse l can only tell the survivor community l’m more afraid to live than die. It’s not a suicidal issue just ingrained ideology l’ve always lived with. I wonder if others can relate? I never speak it aloud.