Remember, there are no real failures in life, only results.
There are no true tragedies, only lessons. And there really are no problems, only opportunities waiting to be recognized as solutions by the person of wisdom.
We all travel different roads to our ultimate destinations.
For some of us, the path is rockier than for others. But no one reaches the end without facing some form of adversity.
So rather than fight it, why not accept it as the way of life?
Why not detach yourself from the outcomes and simply experience every circumstance that enters your life to the fullest?
Feel the pain and savor the happiness.
If you have never visited the valleys, the view from the mountaintop is not as breathtaking.
We're each born with certain levels of El skills. But we can strengthen these abilities through persistence, practice, and feedback from colleagues or coaches.
WHAT MAKES A LEADER?
What distinguishes great leaders from merely good ones?
It isn't IQ or technical skills, says Daniel Gole-man.
It's emotional intelligence: a group of five skills that enable the best leaders to maximize their own and their followers' performance.
When senior man-agers at one company had a critical mass of emo-tional intelligence (El) capabilities, their divisions outperformed yearly earnings goals by 20%.
The El skills are:
Self-awareness
Self-regulation
Motivation
Empathy
Social skill