I’m unconvinced that borderline personalities have a straightforward “fear of rejection” or “fear of abandonment,” though it often appears that way, is the explanation they themselves frequently give for their behavior, and is simply accepted in the “literature.”
It’s a little more complicated and inconvenient than that. What they really fear is that others won’t do what they want and things won’t happen on their terms. Of course, everyone prefers that others act in accordance with their expectations, but most people with normal emotional and ego development can accept that you can’t control everyone and everything.
reading Kant’s Critique of Judgment is like confusedly following an autistic man carrying a small candle through a dark labyrinth, constantly saying, “it will all come together after this turn.” then eternity passes, it actually comes together & you undergo a mystical experience.
@HowToDressWell@misterminsoo Grace and looks take no credit for
Girl, your yearning they're part of the score
Like the chemicals at war in me
Till I'm a wolf with an eye for the ponies
@onlypreneurs Seeing this a lot and life is tight but maybe ya know take inventory and not get loaded in parking lots I get it I get it I really do but finding the happy medium gotta be the trick right