se mindful mindfulnya si maudy ayunda masih lebih mindful pak prabowo, itu baru 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘪𝘬 final boss,
mau ada gempa, erupsi, karhutla, keracunan mbg dst, tetap tidak akan bergeming.
Tips lancar PDKT: banyak-banyakin deep talk.
Ketika ada 2 orang yang nggak saling kenal, lalu disuruh ngobrol bergantian tentang hal personal, mereka akan cenderung untuk lebih suka satu sama lain
Cobain deh
funny side effect: ITB marriage market is lowkey a eugenics program 🤣
jalur pacaran biasa aja udah assortative mating just by environment
jalur taaruf salman sebenarnya lebih eugenics lagi karena tukeran CV kan kelihatan tuh IPK (proxy of IQ, normalized by jurusan), gaji (proxy of IQ + high conscientiousness / low neuroticism), dipercepat dgn low barrier to entry/exit with formalized mechanism (you need to accept/pass in reasonable timeframe usually 2 weeks, jgn gantung orang / ghosting) menghasilkan pretty efficient market for meritocratic, well-adjusted family
kalau pacaran ada market inefficiency krn sunk cost / inventory being held away from market for too long despite better match is available