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Adoption is spiritual violence.
It strips us of our connection to our ancestors. It takes us from our cultures & the spiritual or religious practices within our families.
Spiritual violence.
Calling adoption a “chosen family” is actually incredibly malicious because you’re building it with people who had no choice. It’s really a “captive family”
“Very common for adopted people to be told how lucky they are to have been saved from their own flesh and blood families. Often we are told how awful they are by people who don't even really know them.” Truth About Adoption
Many people who espouse to care about social Justice, human rights, anti-racism & anti-oppressive work don’t hold those same values when it comes to adoption. They feel it’s their human right to adopt at the cost of violating a child’s human rights.#adopteevoices#adopteetwitter
I was placed into kinship legal guardianship as a child. I was entitled to my cps records, birth certificate ect, I kept my birthname. My youngest brother was adopted. They sealed his records and he lost his birthname, identity, biological ties his entire existence.
People who adopted 30, 40, 50 years ago can say “we didn’t know better” and while it doesn’t alter the effects, it can be accepted. People adopting today will try to say “we didn’t know better” in 20, 30, 40 years and we’ll have a digital footprint of them telling adoptees off
A birth certificate is not a documentation of ownership. It is a record of birth.
So why does my “record of live birth” include a couple who was 3000 miles away during my delivery?
Why do they have the right to do that?