@walrusgumboote But he hasn’t taken the initiative to bring it up, address how he hurt you and your relationship genuinely, and express how he has changed. 👎 idk man he’s dangerous imo he manipulates you so easily and quickly :(
@walrusgumboote How you acted over the Tyler show? Man, no. You can not go back to him if he has somehow convinced you any reaction you had from that was wrong. What he did there was beyond fucked up, and he knew it would hurt you before he did it, meaning he did it on purpose to hurt you.
@walrusgumboote nah man you weresending us screenshots and stuff. you started lashing out at the smallest things after he was ignoring and ridiculing you anytime you tried to speak up about something that hurt you for ages. It was builtup due to his treatment, and is a normal psychological resp.
@walrusgumboote you need to find someone new to try with 💪🏻 give yourself a change in a new safe and happy relationship when you can set boundaries and comfortability
@walrusgumboote + we deserve an apology too tbh. Like it is sad to know that you were shit talking us with this person too & now want to go back to a person who has you shit talking your friends behind their backs 👎 and if he does that, imagine how he’d still be talking about you.
@walrusgumboote If you’re not excusing him then you’re actively pining over someone you know is racist bc you used to have a good relationship, which is unhealthy man. he was racist towards you too. If he hasn’t bought it up, there’s no way to know he’s actually changed. -haunt