No amount of shared hardship or marginalization makes men have empathy for women or see them as fully human. It is patriarchal and so ingrained that no matter how bad men have it, they’d still find a way to violate women and girls
Remember when conservatives were like “liberals run a pedophile cult and they use pizza toppings as code words”
And then in real life epstien’s emails were straight up “another great day of raping kids ghislaine !!”