I’m so proud of the woman I’m becoming. My priorities have changed. My tolerance has changed. My mindset has changed. My taste has changed. I'm evolving and I'm 100% here for it.
You can do hard things.
You will bend, you will shift, you will strain, but if you give it time, you will do the hard thing. And at the end ,you will wonder why you ever convinced yourself you couldn’t do the hard thing, & perhaps it was only hard because you believed it to be.
One day I just woke up & said “I don’t have to deal with any of this”. That I don’t have to subject myself to poor behavior just for the sake of partnership. It’s not worth it [to me].
a hard decision doesn’t get easier to make because you are avoiding making it so it’s better to make it as soon as you are able to and then begin the process of moving forward.