You arenโt going to be able to maintain long term relationships, platonic or romantic if you arenโt prepared to talk about whatโs bothering you and give people a chance to address and fix it. Nor give them the chance to tell you when you do something to them.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" felt this to the core.
My mom once told me if she has a problem with my dad, she talks to him first. Not her friends. Not social media.
She said, โAdvice is fine. But your partner shouldnโt be the villain in someone elseโs story before youโve even tried to fix it together.โ
No country will take us seriously if Rodrigo will be found guilty and then Inday becomes president in a matter of a couple of years.
They will think we are a bunch of schizophrenics or indecisive fools.