If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
ppl w adhd do shit like procrastinate for 3 months straight & then in one 24-hr day knock out 3 months of tasks. you either know this life or you don’t lol.
ADHD often hides behind preparation that people never see. Things like planning what to say, staying on track, and managing distractions don’t happen automatically, so the brain compensates by rehearsing to avoid losing the thread or saying the “wrong” thing. By the time you’re actually having the conversation, it can look smooth on the outside, but that’s only because of all the effort that happened beforehand.