A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didnโt deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
Yโall want a year + relationship just to say you in it . But are you ready for them boring days , days yโall fight and it seem like it may not work, tears , ppl tryn break yโall up , heated arguments, trials , etc ? Itโs not always HAPPY & if you go be committed be committed.