@jtimberlake The saying means, for example, you canโt support #TIMESUP and praise sexual predators at the same time. You canโt retain your credibility as an activist (i.e. - retain the cake) and, at the same time, praise a sexual predator (i.e. - eating the cake).
All across America people chose to get involved, get engaged and stand up. Each of us can make a difference, and all of us ought to try. So go keep changing the world in 2018.