@kuchbhi_tweet Outside of her husband's home, are all at the mercy of her husband or her MIL. if they were any more cruel, she would be a prisoner. To add, him being high ranked official means if he falls out of favor, she'll lose her life aside him as their fates are bound.
@kuchbhi_tweet Her marriage with Jinqi was granted by imperial decree, which means they can't divorce and she can't remarry if he dies. Her being the wife of nobility means she would be confined by the rules/etiquette of nobility, so her money, her freedom to see her parents, her ability to go