“black girls have a smaller dating market”, “black girls are less desirable”, etc stuff has never moved me bc i know im attractive, i know black girls are attractive and since i dont need to date everyone, ppl unattracted to me don’t matter
My general rule for feeling mentally well is understanding that the more I judge others negatively, the more I anticipate negative judgement from others. Practicing kindness and leniency and forgiveness has no guarantee of reciprocation, but it puts you in a better state of mind.