"their genderless aesthetic isn't created by removing masculinity or piling on femininity. It lives in the friction between the two, and in the possibility that neither needs to be present at all"
It's one of the most accurate descriptions I've read about them in an article
The whole suit incident with xlov is making me realize that alot of the fandom aren't exactly here for the genderless concept, they're here for their version of what THEY think it means to have a genderless concept.