@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt you can think he did shitty things without pretending there’s zero context 😭 he was 25, seriously struggling, and that period doesn’t have to define him forever. i’m not erasing what he did, i’m saying people change and grow.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt you’re removing all context and taking every stupid joke he made at 25 as if it exists in a vacuum 😭 people say dumb shit, especially when they’re struggling, and people change and grow. the fact that it was a joke doesn’t make it automatically okay, but context matters.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt because i’m responding to the implication of what you’re saying, not claiming you literally said “his mental health isn’t serious” 😭 you’re deliberately misreading my point so you can call anyone who disagrees with you stupid. it’s genuinely not that difficult to understand.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt how weird to say his mental health “isn’t that serious” when you’ve been using ariana’s struggles as context this entire time😭 mental health doesn’t mean you can say whatever you want, but it can explain why someone acted the way they did. that’s been my point this entire time.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt how is acknowledging someone’s mental health an “excuse”? 😭 you’ve mentioned ariana’s struggles throughout this entire conversation, but the second i mention pete’s, suddenly it’s an excuse? that’s such a weird double standard.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt once again, his MY is a huge factor in all of this. MH struggles can set someone back a lot, and even ariana has said that about herself. and yes, a lot of what people share is complete lies or taken out of context, the original tweet we’re replying to being one of them.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt i genuinely don’t know how many times i can restate this 😭 acknowledging his MH struggles and having empathy for what he was going through isn’t the same as defending everything he’s done. u can hold someone accountable without stripping away context.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt again, how does a birth control joke correlate to her getting bullied 😭 they were still engaged, she v likely knew about the joke, and it wasn’t some secret dig at what she was going through. it was a joke. tictacs and birth control don’t look alike. that’s the point.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt is that genuinely ur only response? 😭 i’ve acknowledged what he did multiple times. you’re incapable of seeing that acknowledging his own struggles and the context surrounding his actions isn’t the same as defending him.
@HinataH28678309@MARY28773635@mitchelgoodluck@arianatorswildt i’m not defending him 😭 i’m correcting what you’re claiming he said. he said he was disgusted by the disregard for mental health, not that he was disgusted by ariana. you can believe she didn’t mean it that way, but that doesn’t change what he actually said.