@kouwoku „B-but I thought we‘ll just cudd- heyyy st- stooop hitting -m..meee“
(and then in some fucked up way you both end up liking this and build a femdom relationship from that lol)
..why am I yapping so much
Actually wanting Her to lead means being open and willing to discover that pleasing Her won’t always look like what pleases you.
If that discovery leaves you defensive rather than recognizing the opportunity you’ve been given, it’s worth asking whether you’re actually centering Her pleasure or seeking validation for your own.💁🏻♀️