My wife called me “Babe” for Sunday school, with microphone o.
She was coordinating the questions and answers session when I raised my hand to ask a question.
Madam said “Ok babe, ask your question”
Omo, 2 seconds everywhere burst.
Dear women, pls describe the term “I’m fine” cos from what I’m seeing, it’s obvious that it means something different to you people o.
How can you tell me you’re fine but you’ve been pressing your phone and hissing every two seconds.
Sweetheart, are you fine or you’re not fine?
You both must be intentional about doing this if you’re still interested in the marriage and want it to work. It may take some time for any of these to make any sense to you both but it eventually will.
I sincerely hope this helps.
Is your marriage boring or has it gotten to the stage where the only time you both are active participants in togetherness is when the bed is about to shake?
Then this is for you….
Disclaimer: This is not a therapy but it just might help.
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6. Play songs that you both are familiar with while doing house chores and sing along together.
This list is not exhaustive but I’ll stop here for now.
5. Watch movies together as often as you can. Choose movies that you both find interesting and ensure to take note of key lessons from the movie. Then when the movie is over, talk about the characters you find most interesting and the roles they played. Share the lessons learned
4. When you get home, talk about the events of the day. Infact as you go out, make conscious efforts to take note of interesting events with specific details just to go gist your partner at home.
3. When you both go out – to work or anywhere else, Initiate calls. Ask simple questions like:
“What’s going on with you over there?”
“What are you doing at the moment?”
“What will you like to eat when you get home?”
“What should I buy for you on my way home?”
2. Pray and study God’s word together. By sharing your understanding on a particular scripture with each other, you initiate communication. Don’t just pray “fast food prayers”, you both should lead at intervals such that you’re both talking to God and talking with each other
1. Once you wake up each morning, ensure to greet each other “good morning” and ask how the night went for you both. Don’t do this grumpily, be open and free about it. If you had a dream, share it with your partner and you both discus about it or pray about it
The major ingredient that ignites the spark in relationships and marriages is communication. The more you communicate with each other, the more the chances of getting your spark back as a couple. These are few steps you can therefore take to make that happen:
These men just love to dominate. Once they see a woman who has figured her life out and is getting her shit together, they come up with rubbish statements like this…
@oneman_official This is actually a cooked up story just to add fuel to the debate about giving to the church and the already established fight that this generation is waging against the church. This is obviously a rage bait but it’s fine.