SUMPAH MARAH BANGET!!!
Ini gak cuma di satu video, tapi ada di video-video orang ini lainnya.
Video kaya begini termasuk ke dalam ableism yang merupakan bentuk prasangka dan diskriminasi terhadap penyandang disabilitas. Hitungannya sudah MERENDAHKAN mereka!
Hal-hal kaya begini yang dinormalisasi, apalagi dijadikan konten hiburan, hitungannya GAK LUCU!
Karena bisa memperkuat stigma sosial yang berdampak nyata terhadap kesehatan mental dan kesejahteraan penyandang disabilitas.
Penelitian menunjukkan bahwa penyandang disabilitas yang menonton atau melihat perilaku ableism ini berisiko mengalami masalah kesehatan mental, termasuk rasa malu (shame) yang memicu gejala depresi dan kecemasan.
Penelitian lain tahun 2024 di Journal of Media Psychology meneliti mengenai humor disabilitas dan menemukan bahwa humor semacam ini justru memperkuat stereotype negatif, mengurangi empati penonton, dan menyebabkan distress emosional bagi penyandang disabilita, meskipun pembuat konten mengklaim “hanya bercanda”. Korban sering mengalami ejekan, cyberbullying, dan self-censorship karena takut diejek lebih lanjut.
Cukup marah-marahnya.
Semoga tidak ada lagi humor-humor seperti ini!
Sumber:
-Implications of internalised ableism for the health and wellbeing of disabled young people
-Humor That Hurts: An Exploration of Jokes About Black Women with Disabilities on TikTok in South Africa
- Sang Penyaksi Nafsu Ngaceng -
Ramai soal pelecehan seksual di medsos.
Ini buat semua laki-laki.
Ngaceng, nafsu itu wajar. Tapi saat gitu, jangan dilawan, tapi juga jangan dipuaskan, jangan melecehkan, maksa orang buat ngentot.
Benar-benar sadari ngaceng, nafsu itu. Jadilah sang penyaksi nafsu ngaceng.
Jangan lari, nggak perlu “ini salah” atau “harus disalurkan”. Karena itu bikin konflik batin yg malah ngasih energi ke nafsu.
Sadari tanpa pelarian, nggak ditekan, nggak disalurin secara membabi buta, maka nafsu mengendur secara alami.
• “He was born offside,” kata Sir Alex Ferguson.
• “Inzaghi is a player who was born in an offside position.”
• Dua kali juara Liga Champions bersama AC Milan
Apa lagi yg km ingat dr seorang Filippo Inzaghi?
Yep, we were way ahead of them all. 😉⚽️🙇♂️🙏🎯
From the Scottish FA's, Review of Youth Development in Men's Football Report:
Trends in Success in Elite Player Development
The ‘Golden Years’ for Early Engagement (0-5)
Players Studied:
Messi, Ronaldo, Mbappe, Neymar Jr., Bellingham, Hazard, Ronaldinho, Iniesta, Halland, Modric, Gotze, Maradona, Henry, Fabregas, Tevez, Shevchenko, Foden, Rashford, Salah, Felix, Pedri, Gavi.
The above table mirrors research that was completed by Tom Byer on this topic, who found the same pattern in each of the world’s best players.
There are several key trends from this research:
It seems to be unavoidable that, in order to become the best player in the world, 2-4 seems to be the ‘golden window’ for early engagement with the ball.
The world’s best players commented that the ‘ball was their favourite toy’ as a toddler – not that football was their favourite game (initially). Making the ball the favourite toy from the earliest age is the key trend in elite development.
Later, when these players started to play organised football, their early exposure meant they were seen as ‘more talented’ and thus excelled and fell in love with the game. In Scotland, there is a grassroots assumption that by making children fall in love with the game, this will inspire them to practice further. However, this puts the process in the wrong order.
A key takeaway from this research is that this fundamental phase in elite development happened within the house, and was inspired by a family member, usually a parent, and always before the child was involved in any kind of organised activity. This shows that waiting for the child to enter organised programmes is not enough, and the Scottish FA must stimulate a culture shift that encourages children to master the ball at an earlier age and stage.
For this to occur, the Scottish FA strategy must shift away from thinking about elite development solely in terms of organised activity, towards the families of young children. It is the family, most often a parent or guardian, who decides whether a child will have this early opportunity to master the game.
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