It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can’t afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.
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Just putting this out there: if you're in public dressed like that, I'm going to look. Don't be too flattered, though. I also look at car wrecks, street fights, flashy cars, and anything else that catches my attention. If something is eye-grabbing, I'm not going out of my way to pretend I didn't see it.
If you're not comfortable with being looked at, don't dress in a way that's obviously going to attract attention in public. It's pretty simple.
ODUMODUBLVCK released an album to promote his album, made a million public appearances in Africa and Europe, featured countless mainstream artists, got fabrizio romano(biggest football journalist) to promote his album and also tweeted daily into controversy to promote his album.
And you reduce his achievements to “y’all gave” like he was gifted the numbers?
Some of una need flogging!!
i didn’t inherit anything for my transitioning into adult. cultural capital, social capital, financial capital, got none. just fighting for my life everyday in the worst time to be an adult in the worst country possible too.
I've just finished discouraging someone on her Japa route; I told her to stay in Nigeria.
The fact we are fighting for a better life and setting does not mean you should go to certain countries and worse of all with no concrete plans.
What are you going to do in Libya?