as an “actual” private person, i can over confirm that people becomes very odd when they can’t figure you out or what’s truly going on in your life and beyond the surface. most importantly, normalize lying to people who ask too much about your private life. people be weird asf.
We’re going to question anything that doesn’t seem right in the Bible or Quran, regardless of whether it affects your feelings, beliefs, or spiritual life. We don’t care. Some of us are not zombies to religion. 👍
I know Nigerian Christians will probably disagree, but I will say it anyways. The passivity of many Nigerians is deeply tied to the type of Christianity practiced here. Instead of fostering critical thinking and active engagement in societal issues, this version of faith often encourages submission and a “leave it to God” mentality. Many people rely on prayer for solutions to issues that require practical action, from addressing poverty to pushing for political change. This approach has cultivated a culture of waiting for divine intervention rather than taking responsibility and initiating change. It is one of the many reasons why we are where we are. Take it or leave it.
During my NYSC, I lived in a church house. Cleaned the church every Saturday, counted offering afterwards, morning mass everyday and every other church activities.
When I was done with NYSC, I asked the priest to recommend me to his connections for a job, fr said he found a factory job of 6 days a week, 7am to 7pm at 15k/monthly for me at Sumal foods. That was the day I cancelled anything church from my life
On the 17th of April 2024, I will attempt to break the Guiness World record for the longest Chess marathon in the heart of Times Square New York City for 58 hours without losing a game.
Doing this for the dreams of millions of children across Africa without access to education.
In less than 6 months, Nigeria happened to me and my family AGAIN! Please read to the end.
Myself, my husband and my little baby girl moved to Moniya in Ibadan in August 2023.
In September, 2023, a month after we moved in, we were robbed at gun point in our home. My husband’s
Work life balance is a wonderful goal.
It’s just not going to happen if you want to be the best.
Because whatever you’re not willing to sacrifice, the best person is.
I finished seeing the movie SUITS during the holiday, and my brain picked up these few words;
- Work until you no longer have to introduce yourself.
- Goals so big you get uncomfortable telling small-minded people.
- The difference between you and me: YOU want to lose small, I want to win big.
- It will happen because I am going to make it happen.
- Don't raise your voice; improve your argument.
- You want to change your life, change the way you think.
- 97% of the people who gave up are employed by the 3% who never gave up.
- I could be drinking a juice box and still kick your a**.
- I win; that is what I do.
Happy New Year 🎉 Cheers to another year of "no gree for anybody"🥂😂