My boyfriend now husband now father of my child yet again dropped everything and is on the maximum paternity leave possible to take care of his baby and his baby. Even with Grandma being around, he insisted.
The highest form of love is consideration.
Yes! And this is why I’m uncomfortable with the corset asoebi trend. It’s on every dress, forcing us all to be comfortable & accepting of only one type of curve. It is so harmful to our self-perception.
This is an example of how marriage often takes, and takes, and takes from women.
You give up your last name, your body, your career, and sometimes your source of income just to keep a man happy.
If she had closed that business and chosen to stay jobless while depending on him, she still would have suffered for it.
Men rarely face the same dilemma between family and income,the woman is expected to understand and hold things down at home with the children. But switch the roles, and you see how quickly she’s left out to dry.
Narcissistic people do this, Avoidants also do this.
One does it cos they are never wrong, it’s either you’re wrong or confused but it’s never them. The other does it cos they can’t stand your emotions, it feels like a sharp pin poking their shame wound, reminding them they aren’t good enough so instead of apologizing, they shut down and pull away
Then they come back hoping your boundaries aren’t firm so they can slip through like nothing happened. Traumatized people mahn
A lot of people are out here promoting “nonchalant men” like it’s something admirable.
Newsflash…..It’s not.
In Islam, emotional neglect, coldness, and indifference are not qualities to aspire to. They are far from the example of the Prophet ﷺ.
There’s a serious Lassa fever outbreak in Nigeria right now where 146 people have been confirmed dead in 11 weeks and there have been 582 confirmed cases.
25 doctors have been infected, and 3 have lost their lives.
If you are reading this, please stay safe. This virus spreads through the urine or droppings of infected rats, or human-to-human contact.
It starts like an ordinary fever, but it can quickly move to bleeding, a swollen face, and shock.
ALWAYS:
1. Cover your food and pots tightly.
2. Block the holes where rats enter your house.
3. Wash your hands thoroughly with soap.
4. If you have a persistent fever, stop swallowing random drugs from the chemist. Go to the hospital immediately.
Our health workers are at risk, and proper Personal Protective Equipment (PPE) is life-saving. We cannot afford to lose more people to a preventable disease.
Stay safe and retweet this to save a life today!
Divorce rates are high in this generation for just one reason, women today have stopped normalising physical and mental abuse post marriage. In past cheating, emotional trauma and abandonment weren’t considered a thing but now these are unacceptable. Other factors are secondary.
Half of the time, the “peace” a lot of men ask for when they talk about wanting a partner that brings peace is silence and acceptance when they misbehave or act disrespectfully.
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Off topic, but notice how the woman in pink keeps retrieving the dice after rolling and replacing it into the basket? Little signs like these are what show that a person is mentally present enough to be considerate of others even in heightened moments.
While the world is asleep, a real lover is brainstorming on ways to thrill his partner on their big day. You can’t teach thoughtfulness and romantic consideration.
I started making the kids get us tables at restaurants.
Helps them …..
- build the “it wasn’t that bad” muscle
- experience the “I did it” moment
- practice their English
- interact with service workers
Anything else you do with kids to help them build mini life skills?