My therapist once told me: Imagine being bitten by a snake and, instead of treating the bite, you waste time chasing the snake to understand why it bit you and prove you didn't deserve it.
Finally woke up and realized that the person I was “talking to” was never going to be my man and I was just over romanticizing a situationship that was never going anywhere.
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
I don’t want no ngga with a YN mindset. I love a family man. Make yo money and come straight back home to us. Trips, dates, family vacations. Y’all can have these nggas that wanna fucc different btches & do YN sht. These nggas LIL BOYS. 🤷🏽♀️💯