cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
unpopular opinion: men don't understand being a “PROVIDER” isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
When you choose someone to build a future with, don't just pay attention to how they love you on their best days. Pay attention to who they become on their hardest ones.
Notice how they communicate when they're frustrated. How they treat people when they're exhausted. How they respond when life doesn't go their way. Watch how they carry responsibility, handle disappointment, and adapt when things change.
Because chemistry can spark a connection, but character is what sustains it.
The person you choose won't only share your happiest moments. They'll influence your everyday life,the conversations, the conflicts, the quiet evenings, the stressful seasons, and the decisions that shape your future.
Love is important. But peace, respect, maturity, and consistency are what make love a place you can actually live in.
You're not just choosing a partner.
You're choosing the environment your heart will live in every day.
seni sevdiğini söyleyip seni inciten şeyleri düzeltmeyen insanlar, seni gerçekten sevmez. sadece sana sahip olmanın verdiği rahatlığı severler. çabasız sevgi, gerçek sevgi değildir.
Soulmates are not just lovers, they are also friends. Your soulmate naturally recognizes you, is in harmony with you, and is on the same wavelength as you. They understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you, and grow with you. They make you feel beautiful just the way you are.
Women are afraid men will:
1. Sexually assault them
2. Kill them
Men are afraid women will:
1. Laugh at them
2. Date them for free food
We are not the same. 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️