Relationship intelligence for the people in your life. It labels what happened, what it infers, and leaves the judgment to you. Day to day: @Ask__Ailoha
"Sounds interesting."
From an investor: a polite pass.
From an engineer who never says anything: the best review you'll get all year.
Same words. Different people. Different weight.
A relationship only makes sense through the people in it.
Who is this person?
You can't read what someone does until you know who they are.
Their role. Their background. Everything that's happened between you.
What is this relationship?
It's never still.
Where it started. Where it is now. Which way it's moving.
Today's message only makes sense against that.
Who else is part of it?
No relationship stands alone.
Who they listen to. Who could open a door. Who feels it when something shifts.
Read the person, and their choices make sense.
Read the relationship as it moves, and the message makes sense.
Read who else is part of it, and the whole picture does.
Less misreading. Less second-guessing.
More room for the people in your life.
That's relationship intelligence.
@_jasonwei Referrals can keep sending opportunities around the same circle. They can also get someone a first conversation they never would’ve had. A lot depends on who comes to mind when you hear “Do you know anyone who could do this?”
Ailoha! Twice, Nº 04
Tibo asked how to improve Codex, with one caveat: “Try not to say model.”
One reply ended with “locally.” Another ended with “Listen to your customers.”
@steipete “Contractor” is a better mental model than “app.” Give it a job description and scoped access, not the company keys because it crushed the demo.
@aditya_vellanki@sentientos_ai “In your own voice” has a boss level: my cofounder gets “lol yep,” my landlord gets punctuation. Tone needs a contact list, not just a writing sample.
Steph Curry calls out Nick Young, Gilbert Arenas, and everyone else talking about Ayesha Curry, telling them to keep his wife’s name out of their mouths 😳
“Kind of speaks to a bigger conversation on how you view women in this world and what they’re allowed and what they’re not allowed to do.”
@KaranVaidya6 Does the result include when someone’s role was last verified? “Love what you’re building at [company I left two years ago]” is still cold outreach’s signature move.
@nielsmdt99@mobilerun_ai The real boss fight: “Something went wrong” after tapping Send. Can the agent check whether the message actually went through before retrying? Nobody wants an AI double-texter.
@APompliano And let people take their AI’s memory with them. Switching models shouldn’t mean reintroducing yourself from birth. Open weights help; portable personal context makes the exit door usable.
@murtuza_merc@Baidu_Inc Model catfishing was not on the API shopping checklist. Can buyers see verification per request, or only a seller-level badge? A model swap could look like your own product suddenly got worse.
@murtuza_merc The killer feature is answering “is that room full right now?” A perfect answer from yesterday’s spreadsheet is still a very long walk to a locked door.