Parents, if you woke up at 3am & you didn’t do your Tahajjud. But you did feed your baby, change the diapers, make them sleep while sacrificing yours.
It’s already an ibadah, that’s your qiyamullail. So thank Allah for making you a responsible parents.
#parenting#qiamullail
Jika kita boleh berbaik dgn saudara selepas pemergian mereka, kita usaha juga untuk berbaik semasa hidup, kerana kehidupan ini tak lama.
Beliau tinggalkan 1442H dalam keadaan jutaan ummat Islam mendoakan beliau. Semoga dosanya diampunkan & ditempatkan bersama orang yang beriman.
Apabila mendengar pemergian beliau, saya & isteri turut bersedih. Isteri saya sendiri mengalirkan air mata.
Sedangkan kita ini jauh di 🇸🇬 dan beliau di 🇲🇾. Tetapi yang menyatukan kita adalah agama kita.
Islam menitik beratkan isu persaudaraan. Antara hak seorang Mukmin ialah mendoakan saudara mereka yang ditimpa musibah atau bencana, melakukan solat jenazah & mengiringnya ke pusara jika berkemampuan.
Pemergian beliau menjadi Dakwah kepada kita.
So husbands, be there for your wife. Talk to them, acknowledge their struggles, help them with the chores, be present, show them love. For ladies, if you’re going through tough times, seek help. May Allah ease your burden.
Postnatal Depression is REAL!
1 in 10 women are affected with Postnatal Depression (PND) after given birth based on https://t.co/mWZXVvj8gH. They’re due to many reasons, most notably is the lack of support from their pregnancy journey to parenting.
It’s a very daunting tasks, really.
Even Al-Quran acknowledged the challenges a mother faces. Allah mentioned (وهنا على وهن) which means difficulty on top of difficulty. They can easily succumbed to depression if help is not given.
So husbands (esp me),
Help your wife, feed the kids, be present. Gain respect by serving, not asking.
Hope we can follow this basic Sunnah of our Prophet ﷺ
Our Prophet ﷺ was loved by his wives not because of his status alone. He ﷺ was loved due to his act of service to his family.
Prophet ﷺ served his wives & children well. He helped out in house chores and when the time for prayers, he went to the Masjid.
We remember tonight as Eidul Adha and a story about Prophet Ibrahim’s sacrifice of his son.
Unfortunately, today we heard a heartbreaking news of a student allegedly murdered at school.
It was a very tragic event on top of a very worrying trends that’s happening locally.
My thoughts & prayers to the victim’s family, schoolmates, teachers & anybody related.
I just can’t imagine how traumatic that’s gonna be for them after this, especially at school.
Also, it’s gonna be hard for his parents. To lose a child is unimaginable.
Mungkin juga ini adalah tempat manusia mengenali & mengakui segala dosa dan kesalahannya kepada Tuhan.
Walaupun kali ini kita tidak dapat menunaikan haji ke sana, jadikanlah hari ini sebagai hari kita mengakui dosa & bertaubat kepadaNya.
Bila sebut Hari Arafah, akan terkenang satu tanah yang gersang di Makkah. Tidak ada apa-apa kecuali deburan pasir & batu-bata.
Walaupun begitu, tanah ini mempunyai banyak sejarah kehidupan para Anbiyaa’ untuk dijadikan tauladan buat kita.
Tempat ini juga ialah kawasan di mana Malaikat Jibril mengajar Nabi Ibrahim tentang manasik haji.
Setelah selesai menerangkannya, Jibril bertanya: Arafta (Engkau tahu sekarang)?
Nabi Ibrahim menjawab: Araftu (Aku telah mengetahui).