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Contrary to wishful thinking, connections don’t automatically create transactions.

You only get transactions, when those connections want to change, and see what you have, as their solution.

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Failing is hard, but avoiding failure is harder.

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The “not good enough” trigger #3:

Damaged Trust:

When you ask “why me?”

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The “not good enough” trigger #2:

Comparison:

Guarantee your failure by comparing your weaknesses to others’ strengths.

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The “not good enough” trigger #1:

Unmet Expectations.

Silently robbing you of joy since birth.

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Borrow others’ enthusiasm instead of using your own…

And you risk resenting them, if things don’t turn out well.

It’s okay to be not enthusiastic. It may be your gut warning you.

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Person: Has a Problem

You: Have a Solution

Truth: If there’s no real desire to change…your solution doesn’t matter.

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If you’re always needing to be right…

You have a fragile sense of Self-worth.

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If you find yourself fantasizing about your goals…

You’re also in danger of catastrophizing when you fall short.

Visualize ONLY for the direction, then focus on the daily millimeter actions.

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No one cares about your sob story.

The only thing they care about?

What's in it for them.

The ugly default side of human nature.

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A mistake I made in the past

Trying to pretend that things are okay if no one is complaining.

This made things worse.

My relationships took off when I was more open, vulnerable, and willing to have the hard talk.

Fix your communication first.

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Those “motivational” books on your shelf are worthless, if you don’t apply what you learned.

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Measure Backwards.

Move Forward.

Happiness.

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IMPOSSIBLE -
based on
current knowledge and experiences.

POSSIBLE -
based on
current knowledge and experiences.

Only thing we can control -
is our
current knowledge and experiences.

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If you really want it.

You'll find a way to...

If not.

You'll find a way not to...