You willlllllll go to Umrah this new Islamic year.
You will give salaam to the Prophet.
You will have zamzam for breakfast, lunch and
dinner this year.
Point. Blank. Period!
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm done explaining myself, done convincing anyone of my worth, and done fixing what I didn't break. I refuse to fight for a spot in anyone's life. If you see my value, great. If you don't, that's on you. I'm not forcing anyone to appreciate me, respect me, or treat me right. That's a choice they have to make on their own. Just lessons and a future that no longer includes people who took me for granted
nothing is gonna ruin a relationship/friendship faster than seeing your partner/friend showing up for people in a way that you wanted them to show up for you
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, I hope you understand how hard that was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people, no matter how bad they clearly are for me. So if I don't fwu anymore it's bc you pushed me past my limits
Biggest lesson: stop confusing repeated behavior with confusion. People know when they're ignoring you. They know when they're being distant. They know when they're hurting you. Actions are choices. If someone keeps showing you where you stand, stop asking for a different answer.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
Communication is so beautiful that the lack of it can ruin a relationship. If you’re busy, say it. If you’re upset, express it. If you’re running late, let people know. If you’re unsure about someone, be straightforward. If you don’t understand, ask. It’s so, so important.
Never underestimate the power of genuine communication.