Kenapa pernikahan menguntungkan laki-laki? Semua masalah laki-laki diselesaikan perempuan.
Mulai dari ujung kepala sampe ujung kaki disiapin, makan-minum, sex, therapist, baby sitter, maid, sampai minta maaf kl suaminya 'khilaf'.
The football was never the problem.
We all make time, remember details, and stay curious about the things that genuinely matter to us. That's just how the human brain works.
So when the person you love bisa inget ratusan pemain, jadwal pertandingan, statistik, tapi dengan mudahnya lupa sama little things you've shared, the plans you've made together, atau percakapan yang penting buat kamu, it stops feeling like absentmindedness.
It starts feeling like you're living on the edge of their attention instead of at the center of their life.
Dan menurutku, that's where the real pain is.
Aku juga enggak percaya kalau istrinya nulis sepanjang itu cuman karena satu football match. Those paragraphs are usually built from months (sometimes years) of choosing to let things slide.
Mulainya dari, "Gapapa." Or "He's tired." Or
"It's not worth arguing about." Or "Yaudahlah, nanti juga ngerti sendiri." Until one day, the disappointment becomes too heavy to keep carrying in silence.
Kim Ryul
✅ Personality-nya dewasa
✅ Kalo siap-siap paling cepet
✅ Paling jago masak
✅ Urutan kedua jadi yang paling cepet hafalin choreo
✅ Paling aktif nomor dua di group chat
✅ Kamar rapi (tengah-tengah katanya)
Dan semuanya gak dibantah sama member👍🏻
Sometimes, woman giving up not because you make 1 big mistake, but bcz the smallest shit that happen to be a pattern. Girl, may this kind of man never find us. Amen.
this is my biggest fear dibanding gak nikah. bayangin being alone in a situation you’re legally tied to dan akan ada potensi katastrofi klo lu pengen out. the worst kind of loneliness is being alone in someone’s company. belom lagi demonized klo lu broke down ntar *shudder*
menurut gue kalimat ‘not a good husband but he’s a good father’ gabisa diromantisasi, karena sebenernya itu miris sih. lo kalau cuma mau jadi bapak tapi gamau jadi suami ya adopsi anak aja anjing gausa nikahin org wkwkwkwkwkwkw