If you don't have 1,000 or more in your bank account rn, you need to stop going out with friends on weekends, stop being messy, stop having sex, stop trying to compete with everybody and lock in ..
I'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping on what you can't control. Everyone is going to do what they want, regardless of your feelings. Just control what you can change.. I’m in my “life goes on” era because nothing is worth trippin on for too long.
Relationships are harder now because conversations that need to be had become text messages. Arguments become phone calls to others. Feelings become social media status updates. Yesterdays fight ruins today’s communication.
PLEASE, get away from these men that claim they love u & treat you like they barely like u! IDC what the ties are rather it’s time, money, kids WHATEVER. Get TF ON. Women spend so much time in a relationship being treated like bs rather it’s mentally, emotionally, or physically.